Two key ingredients that will help you grow and evolve
New year, new me is being spoken so bravely at the beginning of every year.
Let's brake this down for a little bit.
New year means:
the predictable contexts that are most likely you will be in.
the possible contexts you could say yes to.
the potential contexts you cannot even begin to comprehend or imagine now as being part of your reality.
New me means:
the predictable mindset I am most likely to have based on my past experiences.
the possible mindset I could choose as a different option, a new option, a new perspective based on my imagination and self leadership or examples I see in others
the potential mindset I might develop/download in an instant or during a process
So, new year, new me could mean:
😳 a very similar outcome to the past (or your family/friends) if you play in the predictable field, hence, you haven't done anything in 2022 and are (still) not doing anything to change your mindset. Translates to: new year, same me
😊🙃 a possible change in your life trajectory as you constantly choose new ways of thinking, behaving and leading yourself.
Translates to: I am leading myself knowing what I am doing. I trust without evidence.
🤩exciting or horrible experiences life offers you depending on how you manage the first two fields.
Translates to: "Omg, an amazing year!" Or "I hate life, why does this always happen to me?"
You WILL NOT generate a new you until you change your mindset. Otherwise, you will keep looking at things in the SAME WAY hoping for a different outcome.
That is an immature way of dealing with life.
The key?
Self leadership and self control.
Two key ingredients that will help you grow and evolve and generate the needed new versions of you every year.
Learn to walk the walk of self leadership. Become an Original at @originals_bycosminagrigore
Learn to manage the three fields properly and your life will change because you change.
Change your mindset, change your life trajectory.
Love & self leadership,
Cosmina